The guy I’ve been talking to for about 4 months now and have felt like any day now will ask me to be official was awful to a couple of his friends last weekend and I can’t stop thinking about it.
We were all at his beach house and one of his friends who is clearly quiet and shy but who I find to be incredibly kind had said he’d never been on a jet ski before and had never paddleboarded and didn’t know how to. The guy I have a thing with interrogated him for like 30 minutes asking why he “never had a childhood.” It started as ball busting and stuff which he took well but got to the point where pretty much everyone there had to tell him to back off and leave him alone.
He claims to like the other guy a lot, and I’ve never heard him have a problem with him before but I couldn’t get over the vindictiveness. I’ve seen small spurts before where, especially if one of his friends seems to be having a really good night, he will just say something really rude to knock them down a peg.
He’s never done it to me. And perhaps he never would. But it’s the one major flaw I find right now and it made me just want to go home all weekend, I hated it.
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